Doing OK

Rosi and I see Michael all the time so it is difficult for us to see his progress. But if I think back and try to remember some of the very difficult times we had I can see we are in a much better position now. Michael is getting over his surgery and is handling himself much better nowadays. He is very healthy and strong and when we go out to visit we have a good time with him. The rehab has a rec center and usually we are the only ones in it so we play pool, ping pong and such and whoop and holler and have a good time. When we are in the big house all the patients are around and it is something to see. A couple of the gals have a crush on Michael and want his attention, but he is oblivious. Kinda funny to watch.

Michael likes to laugh now and cut up. He is very lovable and fun to be around. He speaks well and shows me glimpses of getting thru this. Don't get me wrong, there are still big gaps between where he is and normal, but he has come a long ways since this all began. If the chemo provides relief on his ability to communicate and process info, then I will be very hopeful. We will see.

Loss of memory is a big obstacle. Michael's motor skills are great. He can shoot pool or play ping pong like he always has. He does things that look very natural and were learned long ago. He also shows cognition and calculating skills when looking at the plays he should make in pool or playing uno or jenga, all of which he is very good at. But then we go into the bathroom and I will say lets brush our teeth, and I will have to show him what is the toothbrush and how to put the toothpaste on and how to brush his teeth. By the time we do it again he will have forgotten. That is what is puzzling to me, and it is only thru constant repetition that he learns some/many things.

They are also weaning him off of medications and he is doing well with that. His awareness is bringing a strong desire for him to "go home". Lord knows that is what all of us want, he is just not ready. Hopefully he will continue to progress and we can indeed take him home later this year.

Staying the course,
Pops

Waiting

This friday Michael sees the Dr. who performed the surgery and we are hoping he clears him for the Cytoxin treatments. We are very anxious for these to begin and see what happens. He is trying so hard to figure anything and everything out that is thrown his way. He is such a fighter! I can't imagine what it would be like to be in his skin for this long. We believe he has had this secondary encephalitis since about January 7th when his picc line was removed. I often find myself wondering where Michael would be if he was treated right away. What if an MRI was done before pulling the picc line? The most important thing I have learned thru all of this is...Advocate Advocate Advocate! If any of you go thru a medical crisis, these are some issues you should keep in mind. You can't ask enough questions. If you are not getting an acceptable answer, ask someone else. You not only have the right to ask, but the responsibility to your loved one. The medical professionals can be wrong. Push for the tests that you feel need to be performed and don't take no for an answer. OK, I'm off my soap box now. If any of Michael's friends are considering a visit, July is open other than the 8th-10th so far. He would love more visitors. This is the #(972)838-2602 ext. 2 or ask for West House where Michael lives if anyone wants to call. The best time to call during the week is between 4:00 and 8:oo and on weekends pretty much anytime. That is it for now. Thanks for keeping up. Post from Mom

Small steps forward

Even though Michael is back in the hospital from a complication from the surgery, I still feel hopeful today. Michael is making progress in spite of having nmda receptor encephalitis. That tells me he is a fighter! He had 2 friends visit this week. Landon and Ashley came to spend time with him and they had a great time! He loves it when friends visit. Thanks to those of you who have taken the time to do so. We really appreciate it. He has a wonderful sense of humor and is very affectionate. We are anxious for the treatment to start, hopefully in a couple of weeks. Please everyone pray for a good out come for him and no secondary infections. A word about Pate. It is a wonderful place and is staffed with folks who get it. I can tell they really care about Michael and we feel very good leaving him there. It has a family feeling and that move was definitely a good one. Michael has not had any injurfies since he came there. He even told me " I have friends here. " I loved it! That is it for now. Thanks for all the love and prayers. Mom